I sometimes hear Christians saying they want their friends to keep them accountable for different things. It sounds really good. A Biblical Accountability partner is important. Sometimes I wonder though, if that person really tries to keep you accountable and gives you Biblical admonishment, what then? Do you start calling them judgmental or hypocritical? Do you start avoiding them? Do you change churches or homeschool groups or stop going to Bible study? Basically, do you pout like a baby and run away, justifying your actions or lack thereof?
I think I've been guilty of all of the above at some time or another... |
Now the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that ye may abound in hope, through the power of the Holy Ghost. And I myself also am persuaded of you, my brethren, that ye also are full of goodness, filled with all knowledge, able also to admonish one another. Romans 15:13-14
And if any man obey not our word by this epistle, note that man, and have no company with him, that he may be ashamed. Yet count him not as an enemy, but admonish him as a brother. 2 Thessalonians 3:14-15
It's not fun to be admonished. It's not fun to be held accountable. It hurts. Be aware, very aware of what you are asking for if you ask for accountability. Also be aware that it is your job as part of the kingdom, not to turn a blind eye, but TO admonish others. Yes, Jesus said to clean out your own eye first, before poking at someone else's, and we should. If we are constantly reevaluating ourselves we will never feel confident or comfortable admonishing another, but we can pray for the Holy Spirit's help to do it in love and also spend time praying for that person.
Yes, let us keep each other accountable. Yes, let us admonish one another. Let us also have humble, teachable spirits and be willing to self examine and ask for help.
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